Text messages sent by celebrity Jonah Hill to his now Ex girlfriend Sarah Brady have recently been causing a dramatic stir online, as people debate the appropriateness of their “boundaries”, the nature of power imbalances, and misogyny and narcissism. Fred brings the insight of his psychology background to a heated online debate, highlighting the centrality of insecurity in Hill’s behaviour and pointing its hypocrisy. Matt is a little less confident in directly equating this behaviour with other, more overtly abusive or manipulative behaviour, but is concerned by the utilising of therapy-speak.